Vayikrah 5768
Not many rabbis look forward to a Dvar Torah on Vayikrah. Sacrifices, as central as they were in the past, are far removed from our daily experience.
Nonetheless, I believe it is possible to find meaning and relevance in some of the motifs and ideas linked to the korbanot, the animal and flour offerings.
Sacrifices were established to give expression to the most basic human feelings: appreciation, need for forgiveness, fear and anxiety. In other words, when we distill sacrifices (and the same, by the way, is true about prayers), we find that they are tangible ways to say "thank you," "please," and "I am sorry."
The book Orchot Tzadikim1, one of the masterpieces of Jewish ethical literature (Sifrut Hamusar), explains that while humility is the mother of all virtues, arrogance is the mother of all vices.
Indeed, we see that true prayer cannot come from the heart of the arrogant, since the words "thank you," "please," and "I am sorry" -when you mean them- can only be uttered by the humble.
Among the three expressions - "thank you," "please," and "I am sorry" - the most difficult one to articulate is the last one. To utter and internalize the words "I am sorry," you first need to recognize that you were wrong and it is never easy to recognize our shortcomings.
Our Torah portion envisions different possible scenarios in which either the average individual (Leviticus 4:2), or the High Priest, (Leviticus 4:3), or the High Court, the Sanhedrin, sin.
These scenarios -according to the Torah- could happen, or not.
And so we read: "If a person sins unintentionally" (Leviticus 4:2), or "If the anointed kohen sins..." (Leviticus 4:3), or "If the entire community of Israel errs..."
"If" is the key word here.
However, regarding the leader of Israel (Leviticus 4:22), the possible scenario stops being only possible, and becomes certain.
"When a leader sins..." (Leviticus 4:22). It is no longer "if". The leader is going to sin, the leader is going to get it wrong, the leader is going to err...
It comes with the territory and is going to happen. The Torah is not advising what to do to prevent a leader from making a mistake, because it is something impossible to prevent. When you are a leader, sooner or later, you are going to make mistakes.
When you are a leader, sooner or later, you are going to build a golden calf, or you are going to hit the rock with your staff, or you are going to talk poorly about your dear brother.
Whoever is in a leadership position is going to underestimate the consequences of a particular challenging situation, at least once if not more, in his or her leadership career, or is going to overreact to a non-threatening one.
When you are a religious leader you are inevitably going to let God down, or your congregants, or at least some of them.
Even if I am a caring person, I am going to hurt someone, sooner or later. It is unavoidable. Even if I don’t mean it, it is going to happen.
And when it does happen, like the biblical leader, I should be prompt to bring my korban chatat.
I should be ready, without delay, to slaughter my false pride, my arrogance, and to offer those difficult words that my mother taught me to say when I was a child, "I am sorry. I hurt you, I let you down. I wish I didn’t do it, but I did it. Please forgive me!"
How to build a more meaningful, a more cohesive congregation?
Let’s start by more often using the words "thank you," "please," and "I am sorry," and by fixing what can be fixed.
Then we shall have the moral authority to move on with our personal and congregational lives!
1 Orchot Tzadilim was first published in Hebrew in 1581. There is a bilingual edition prepared by Rabbi Gavriel Zaloshinsky and published by Feldheim in 1995.